yego.me
💡 Stop wasting time. Read Youtube instead of watch. Download Chrome Extension

Auckland Clip 2: The Four Fundamental Fears


2m read
·Nov 7, 2024

You know, people have like three... well, there are four fundamental fears. One is fear of their own inadequacy and malevolence. That's a big fear, man. That can really do you in if you confront it accidentally and fully. Happens to soldiers sometimes in battle when they find themselves doing things they can't believe they do.

And then we're afraid of society - that would be the oppressive patriarchy because society judges us harshly and mercilessly in many ways, and we don't like to plummet in the... What would you call it? We don't like to see our reputation savaged in front of the groups that we identify with. It's extraordinarily hard on us emotionally for that to happen.

Which I wrote about, for example, in Rule 1, which is a chapter, at least in part, that details out the fact that the neurochemical systems that track your comparative status in competence hierarchies - also regulate the balance between your positive and negative emotion; such that if you suffer a social defeat, your proclivity to experience negative emotion radically increases and your proclivity to experience positive emotion radically decreases. And people seriously do not like that.

And it's no wonder - because who wants to be completely overwhelmed with sadness, and bitterness, and anxiety, and resentment, and disappointment, and frustration, and grief and then, also, devoid of happiness? You know, it's the very definition of Hell. And if a status defeat will increase that probability, then we will fight very hard to maintain our status positions, which we certainly do - that's another fear.

And then, of course, we have the fear of nature. And we should because, of course, nature, despite being "the environment" and this thing that we should be striving to protect and maintain, is also trying, with all of its might, constantly: to make us ill, and old and kill us; and is generally very successful at all three.

And so, there's every reason to be afraid of nature... and... you know, one night alone in the bush will pretty much convince you of that. And then people are also afraid of the unknown. And so those are the big categories of terror that human beings face. And to be naked on stage is to face at least two or three of those simultaneously.

More Articles

View All
Vidit Aatrey on Building Meesho, India's Top Reselling Platform, with Adora Cheung
This is a door from YC. I’m excited to have a detox light CEO and co-founder of Meesho, which was founded in 2015, and you went through YC in 2016. So today, Meesho is probably one of the hottest startups in India, if not the hottest startup, and I’m supe…
Fire Syringe
So, uh, what have we got here? Oh, we’ve got something called a fire syringe. And what does it do? Oh, well, I’ll show you what it does. Some cotton wool in there. Okay, I’m just going to compress the air in it, and hopefully it will… I don’t know what it…
The Power of the Night Sky | StarTalk
The night sky can inspire you on many, many levels. Most people’s concept of God has their God residing in the sky, not under their feet in the dirt. There’s a deep sense that what’s above us is greater than us, bigger than us, more powerful than us; seem…
Eyes on Orcas | Continent 7: Antarctica
[music playing] [splash] [shout] NARRATOR: After a season of frustration– BEN SHARP: Right there. NARRATOR: –Regina and her team have a killer whale in sight. BEN SHARP: He’s coming towards the edge. NARRATOR: Now, they just need it to be in range. …
How To Get Rich According To Jay Z
There are a million ways to make a million dollars, and this is one of them. You guys asked for it, so here’s how to get rich according to Jay-Z, the rap industry’s first billionaire. Jay-Z is at the moment worth a staggering 2.5 billion US Dollars. Smart…
Something Strange Happens When You Keep Squaring
Take the number 5 and square it, you get 25. Now take 25 and square it, you get 625. Square 625, and you get 390,625. Do you see the pattern? 5 squared ends in a 5, 25 squared ends in 25, and 625 squared ends in 625. So does this pattern continue? Well,…