Modern Women Are Not What You Think - This Will Shock You

Speaker: What's happened is the rise of social media and the rise of online dating and the rise of feminism has taught women that they are not to blame for any poor choices. Every poor choice is glamorized.

So if you want to be a sex worker, it's great. If you want to post in bikini pictures online, it's fine. If you want to be in with it, every poor choice is glamorized and every internal reflection is seen as gaslighting yourself. So they've even got terms for internal reflection to prevent it happening.

And so what will happen is they are trained to not reflect on themselves because we've been told we've been oppressed for so many years. Now it's time to make sure we project. And so we don't take any accountability.

And as a result, when we get into relationships, if we don't feel completely soothed all the time, he must be a narcissist. He must be a manipulator. He must be gaslighting. He he he rather than I I I.

And unfortunately, we've got an online market that caters to that wounded woman, that caters to that entitled woman and caters to that narcissistic woman. And it's so wild to me that so many women talk about narcissism. But the society today has just is just catering to narcissistic women.

If I post a picture online, a bikini picture online, there's nothing my husband can do that could compete with that level of uh acne. Impossible. The the compliments, the attention, the messaging, the you're so sexy and beautiful and all these different things from thousands or potentially millions of men around the world who have money and all these things.

Yeah. And there's nothing he can do. He can't post online and get the same reaction. And more so, he can't give me the same level of validation. Oh my god.

So what's happened is we've created a a setup in society that means men have to compete with a level of validation they can't compete with with and if they go online if they join Tinder that night they can have so many more options than a man can because we've got filters and we've got all of these again I'm I really am privy to this myself. I'm not I'm a filter queen.

So but the things I can do to manipulate male and validation to get more attention from men just soothe myself and remind myself I'm above this. I don't need him. I can replace him is something men actually can't do. So they have to rely on pornography for that. They replace us with pornography and we replace them with likes and comments on social media.