yego.me
💡 Stop wasting time. Read Youtube instead of watch. Download Chrome Extension

Being Unhappy Is Very Inefficient


2m read
·Nov 3, 2024

Besides, I'm too smart for it. The other objection is I don't want it to lower my productivity. I don't want to have less desire or less work ethic. Fact-check, and that is true. The more happy you are, the more content and peaceful you are. That's less likely you want to run out there and change the world.

But at the same time, being unhappy is very inefficient. The peaceful person doesn't have extraneous thoughts going through their head. If you are a driven, unhappy person, your mind will be on 24/7. What are the consequences of this? Your sleep is much worse, you're much more likely to react, to become angry, and dig yourself into a hole that you don't have to dig yourself out of.

Your decisions are going to be emotional, impetuous. You're much more likely to be in the busy trap, where you're busy all the time, running from one thing to another, because you can't mentally prioritize. You don't have peace of mind, so when it comes time to make judgments, you have too many threads going through your head. You'd have time to devote to making those judgments.

So, there's a trade-off. If you become the Buddha tomorrow, it's unlikely you'll also launch rockets to the moon like Elon Musk. But on the other hand, there are enough successful, optimistic leaders, scientists, and innovators, especially as they get older, that you see it's not necessarily the case that happy people have to be ineffective.

As I became much happier in my life, I actually became much more effective. I was able to form relationships with people that earlier in my life I would have kept at a distance. Whatever preconceived notion, I can make decisions much more clearly now because I see what the long-term outcome is going to be.

I cut straight to the chase. I don't try and negotiate an extra 20 percent here or there because I know that that's gonna make me unhappy long-term. It's gonna make the other person unhappy, and it'll make the deal less stable. So, I've actually been more productive even though I worked less hard because I've made better decisions.

More Articles

View All
The Last Days of the Romanovs | National Geographic
I think it’s a big tragedy, big tragedy for the country and for the world. For 300 years, the Romanovs ruled Russia as czars—loved, feared, revered, respected. But all too often, those who fly highest fall furthest. World War One brought Russia to revolut…
The Bitcoin Credit Card Is A Disaster...
What’s up, you Graham? It’s Guys here, and it’s about time we talk about something that’s been getting brought up a lot lately. Well, companies are all out there desperately scrambling over each other to try to find a way to capitalize on Bitcoin almost h…
Unbounded limits | Limits and continuity | AP Calculus AB | Khan Academy
So right over here we have the graph of y is equal to one over x squared, and my question to you is: What is the limit of one over x squared as x approaches zero? Pause this video and see if you can figure that out. Well, when you try to figure it out, y…
Estimating multi-digit division word problems | Grade 5 (TX TEKS) | Khan Academy
We’re told a dog food company produced 4,813 dog biscuits. The company will put the dog biscuits into bags, each containing 40 biscuits. About how many bags will the company be able to fill? So pause the video and think about it, and remember you don’t ha…
Brave New Words - Supt. Buffington, PhD, Tim Krieg, PhD, & Sal Khan
Hi everyone, s here from KH Academy and as some of you all know, I have released my second book, Brave New Words, about the future of AI in education and work. It’s available wherever you might buy your books. But as part of the research for that book, I …
Stoichiometry: mass-to-mass and limiting reagent | Chemistry | Khan Academy
Let’s solve a cool stoichiometry problem. Consider the chemical reaction where we have propane that burns with oxygen, giving us water and carbon dioxide. Okay, now if you’re conducting this reaction, our question is how much propane in grams is needed to…