yego.me
💡 Stop wasting time. Read Youtube instead of watch. Download Chrome Extension

Being Unhappy Is Very Inefficient


2m read
·Nov 3, 2024

Besides, I'm too smart for it. The other objection is I don't want it to lower my productivity. I don't want to have less desire or less work ethic. Fact-check, and that is true. The more happy you are, the more content and peaceful you are. That's less likely you want to run out there and change the world.

But at the same time, being unhappy is very inefficient. The peaceful person doesn't have extraneous thoughts going through their head. If you are a driven, unhappy person, your mind will be on 24/7. What are the consequences of this? Your sleep is much worse, you're much more likely to react, to become angry, and dig yourself into a hole that you don't have to dig yourself out of.

Your decisions are going to be emotional, impetuous. You're much more likely to be in the busy trap, where you're busy all the time, running from one thing to another, because you can't mentally prioritize. You don't have peace of mind, so when it comes time to make judgments, you have too many threads going through your head. You'd have time to devote to making those judgments.

So, there's a trade-off. If you become the Buddha tomorrow, it's unlikely you'll also launch rockets to the moon like Elon Musk. But on the other hand, there are enough successful, optimistic leaders, scientists, and innovators, especially as they get older, that you see it's not necessarily the case that happy people have to be ineffective.

As I became much happier in my life, I actually became much more effective. I was able to form relationships with people that earlier in my life I would have kept at a distance. Whatever preconceived notion, I can make decisions much more clearly now because I see what the long-term outcome is going to be.

I cut straight to the chase. I don't try and negotiate an extra 20 percent here or there because I know that that's gonna make me unhappy long-term. It's gonna make the other person unhappy, and it'll make the deal less stable. So, I've actually been more productive even though I worked less hard because I've made better decisions.

More Articles

View All
Lord of the Rings Mythology Explained
The Lord of the Rings has lots of different kinds of people: Elven people, dwarvin people, tree people, half-sized people, even people people. There’s, like, a million pages of background explaining this world that goes much deeper than the books or the m…
Human impacts on the environment | Middle school Earth and space science | Khan Academy
Everything we do has an impact on the world around us that can be a good thing or a bad one. For most of us, that impact can seem pretty small. If you throw an empty can on the ground instead of in the recycling bin, your local park will still be pretty c…
What’s It Like to Photograph the Pope? | Exposure
I’ve never had an assignment that was so frightening in that I had no idea what I was going to shoot. The biggest challenge to photographing the Vatican that I found was simply getting in there. It’s like a gigantic curtain. Just to get behind this curtai…
15 Cryptocurrencies We Invested In (Alux.com Portfolio Reveal)
Hello Elixers! This video was a long time in the making. We began our crypto journey in 2016, before the first bull run, so we’ve been around long enough to see the markets change and slowly mature to the point we see them at today. We believe crypto is a…
2 step estimation word problems
We are told that a race car driver has 28 cars. Each car has four tires. He has to replace all the tires on the cars. He has 22 tires right now. Estimate the total number of tires he needs to buy. So pause this video and see if you can do that. And the ke…
Science Fiction Inspires the Future of Science | National Geographic
The wonders of the future, the marvels of the presence. Science fiction and science innovation have been intertwined since sci-fi’s origins. From video chat to self-driving cars to space flight, there’s the science fiction and the science reality. Sci-fi …