yego.me
💡 Stop wasting time. Read Youtube instead of watch. Download Chrome Extension

Being Unhappy Is Very Inefficient


2m read
·Nov 3, 2024

Besides, I'm too smart for it. The other objection is I don't want it to lower my productivity. I don't want to have less desire or less work ethic. Fact-check, and that is true. The more happy you are, the more content and peaceful you are. That's less likely you want to run out there and change the world.

But at the same time, being unhappy is very inefficient. The peaceful person doesn't have extraneous thoughts going through their head. If you are a driven, unhappy person, your mind will be on 24/7. What are the consequences of this? Your sleep is much worse, you're much more likely to react, to become angry, and dig yourself into a hole that you don't have to dig yourself out of.

Your decisions are going to be emotional, impetuous. You're much more likely to be in the busy trap, where you're busy all the time, running from one thing to another, because you can't mentally prioritize. You don't have peace of mind, so when it comes time to make judgments, you have too many threads going through your head. You'd have time to devote to making those judgments.

So, there's a trade-off. If you become the Buddha tomorrow, it's unlikely you'll also launch rockets to the moon like Elon Musk. But on the other hand, there are enough successful, optimistic leaders, scientists, and innovators, especially as they get older, that you see it's not necessarily the case that happy people have to be ineffective.

As I became much happier in my life, I actually became much more effective. I was able to form relationships with people that earlier in my life I would have kept at a distance. Whatever preconceived notion, I can make decisions much more clearly now because I see what the long-term outcome is going to be.

I cut straight to the chase. I don't try and negotiate an extra 20 percent here or there because I know that that's gonna make me unhappy long-term. It's gonna make the other person unhappy, and it'll make the deal less stable. So, I've actually been more productive even though I worked less hard because I've made better decisions.

More Articles

View All
They Control Everything...
The Wizard of Oz, Frankenstein, Citizen Kane—some of the greatest movies ever made were made during the famed Studio system era of Hollywood. We, as audiences, look back on this era with nostalgia. What an exciting time it must have been to be alive! From…
UK National Parks in 100 Seconds | National Geographic
[Music] What do the UK’s national parks really look like? To see what these landscapes are made up of, let’s go on a walk. Each second of the walk reveals one percent of our national parks and how they appear from above. Are you ready for the UK’s nationa…
10 AMAZING Flash Games - DONG!
Vsauce! Today I’ve got more creativity for you, but not the kind you have to buy or wait for. These are 10 things you can do online now. Guys, Dawn Sign Minister 9 recommended a great game where you have to jump to avoid holes in the floor. Of course, ju…
Khan Academy Ed Talks with Benjamin Riley - Wednesday, January 5, 2022
Hello and welcome to Ed Talks, where we at Khan Academy talk to folks who are influential in the field of education. I’m Kristen Deserver, the Chief Learning Officer here at Khan Academy, and I am happy today to welcome Ben Riley, who is with Deans for Im…
How Many 5 Year-Olds Could You Fight? -- And 18 Other DONGs!
Hey, Vsauce. Michael here. And I am now living in London. Besides popping on over to Disneyland Paris, I’ve also been looking at DONGs: Things you can Do Online Now, Guys. For instance, because I’m now in Britain, my team has changed for clickclickclick.…
Course Mastery Sal (intro only)
Hi teachers, this is Sal Khan here from Khan Academy, and welcome to Course Mastery. So, back in 1984, famous education researcher Benjamin Bloom published the famous Two Sigma study, where he showed that a student who works in a mastery learning framewo…