yego.me
💡 Stop wasting time. Read Youtube instead of watch. Download Chrome Extension

On having expectations


less than 1m read
·Nov 3, 2024

Uh, I try not to have expectations of what I'm doing next or where things are going to go because then you close yourself off to the opportunities that the universe is constantly dropping all around you.

It's just, you have to go pick them up, and you have to be aware enough to notice them. And when, if you're too single-minded with your desires, you're not going to notice new opportunities to grow that are emerging.

In fact, like the worst thing that could have happened to you was if you'd gotten all the desires. If everything you wanted in life had actually happened, you'd be living in your hometown, you'd be married to your high school sweetheart, you'd be doing your first job, but you'd be the boss at Dunkin' Donuts, whatever your first job was, right?

So you have to... The world doesn't always give you what you want, but it often gives you what you need. For that, you just have to be willing to accept that, yeah, maybe this is not the right place, the right time for me, and I just need to move on.

More Articles

View All
Making Something Social Destroys the Truth of It
Making something social destroys the truth of it because social groups need consensus to survive. Otherwise, they fight; they can’t get along. Consensus is all about compromise, not about truth-seeking. Science was this unique discipline, at least in Natu…
Embracing Death | Explorer
It’s interesting in our society, and you know how we do things. You know, we plan for so many life celebratory events. We plan for a wedding, we plan for a baby, we plan for a graduation from high school, from college. We plan for our career. But the one…
How To Build The Future: Sam Altman
We said from the very beginning we were going to go after AGI at a time when in the field you weren’t allowed to say that because that just seemed impossibly crazy. I remember a rash of criticism for you guys at that moment. We really wanted to push on th…
Mr. Freeman, part 63
All right, hot-shots, no small talk or bullshit today! Just cold reality and stark, naked truth. Don’t wanna know, or friggin’ scared? Door’s there! Whattaya waiting for? Thanks for sharing, get the hell out! I’ve had it with your snobby fed-up attitude a…
Magical Misdirections | StarTalk
There’s the traditional magic trick of pulling the rabbit out of a hat, and these, and card tricks, and generally we think of our attention being sort of misdirected rather than there being an illusion. So, Suzanna, tell me about the kinds of misdirectio…
MARS: Humanity's Most Dangerous Mission
Just recently, 18 new Earth-sized exoplanets have been discovered. They range from 70% Earth size to more than twice as large as our planet. We know at least one of them, for certain, has conditions that almost mirror ours on Earth. So, there are worlds o…