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Shower Thoughts: Paradoxes That Will Change Your Life


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·Nov 4, 2024

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As light travels through space, it behaves like a wave, but light is also made of tiny particles called photons. This is the paradox of wave-particles, and it has completely revolutionized modern physics. The universe is filled with intriguing paradoxes like this—statements that challenge our understanding of reality and force us to question our deepest assumptions. These paradoxes have the power to change our lives in profound ways, opening us up to new possibilities and reshaping the very fabric of our existence.

Here are paradoxes that will change your life. Well, the lotto jackpot has grown to over 64 million dollars. It all started with a lottery ticket. [Music] If you go out and buy a lottery ticket, knowing fully well that your chances of winning are 10 million to one, it'd be logical to assume you didn't win. You'd also be justified in thinking that your friend, your uncle, his sister, their cousin, and their dog all have losing tickets. You're justified in believing that everyone who bought a ticket will lose, even when you know the lottery was fair, and there has to be a winner somehow.

You're justified in believing something you know to be false. This demonstrates that truth is relative; it depends on the context, prejudice, and your perspective about the world. Because the truth is: the only thing you can prove with certainty is that nothing is certain. This is why people don't consider Pinocchio saying, "My nose will grow now" to be a paradox. His nose will not grow because he didn't lie; he simply made a false prediction.

If we have a set of all sets that do not contain themselves, does that set contain itself? Imagine there's a barber who shaves all men who don't shave themselves and only men who don't shave themselves. Does the barber shave himself? This is an example of Russell's Paradox, a paradox that shook the mathematical world. These paradoxes playfully notice into realizing that self-reference can often lead to unexpected contradictions.

Contradictions aside, though, we all want to be happy. But those who seek out happiness directly often don't find it. This is the paradox of hedonism. If we truly want to be happy, we need to stop searching for happiness and pursue other meaningful activities, like nurturing our relationships or serving others. Only then can we be truly happy. The pursuit of pleasure in its raw form often leads to disappointment, while life lived in service can lead to unexpected happiness.

Deep down, we all know this. Endless partying, decadent eating habits, and shopping sprees—we know these activities are never as fulfilling as we think they are, and more often than not, we're left with a sense of emptiness after the dust settles. It's called post-indulgence clarity. We see this paradox even in our relationships. Expecting your partner to completely control your happiness often makes them unable to make you happy, at least not in the way you want it.

The reality is that to have good relationships, we need to be somewhat independent of them. People think that to find the right partner, they need all the options in the world to make the perfect person, but in truth, having more options isn't always better. Just look at the fact that we have all these dating apps at our fingertips, and many of us still can't find a healthy relationship. This is the paradox of choice, and contrary to what we think, many options often leave us less satisfied with our final decision.

I once watched a TikTok where this guy said men today see more beautiful women while scrolling through TikTok for five minutes than kings from the past did in their entire lives. Although it was a joke, he was entirely correct, but it's not a good thing. According to biological anthropologist Helen Fisher, the human brain isn't built to deal with more than five to nine options for a partner. After that, the brain goes into decision paralysis, where it almost refuses to pick.

So the next time you feel inundated by options, remember that less is sometimes better, and more data may not always be more informative. Learning is great; asking questions and figuring out how things work is how our species strives to understand the world.

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