yego.me
💡 Stop wasting time. Read Youtube instead of watch. Download Chrome Extension

10 STOIC LESSONS TO HANDLE DISRESPECT (MUST WATCH) | STOICISM


3m read
·Nov 4, 2024

Processing might take a few minutes. Refresh later.

STOICISM INSIGHTS Presents 10 STOIC LESSONS TO HANDLE DISRESPECT

How do you deal with DISRESPECT? DISRESPECT is a common challenge that we all face in life, and it can be very upsetting and frustrating. But what if we could learn from the ANCIENT PHILOSOPHY of STOICISM, which teaches us HOW TO HANDLE difficult situations with wisdom and grace? In this video, we will explore 10 practical STOIC PRINCIPLES that can help us cope with DISRESPECT in a better way. As usual, I challenge you to be strong and stay with me till the end of the video.

Let's begin.

Keep calm. One of the core teachings of STOICISM is that we are not disturbed by what happens to us, but by how we think about what happens to us. As Epictetus said, people are disturbed not by things, but by the view they take of them. This means that DISRESPECT is not inherently harmful or offensive. It is our interpretation and judgment of it that make us feel hurt or angry. When someone disrespects you, remember that their behavior is a result of their own thoughts, feelings, and opinions, not a reflection of your true value or worth. This can help you stay calm and avoid letting their DISRESPECT affect your emotional state.

Reflect on yourself. Another important aspect of STOICISM is the practice of self-reflection and self-examination. The STOICS believed that the quality of our thoughts determines the quality of our lives, and we should always strive to improve ourselves and our actions. As Marcus Aurelius said, "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." When you face DISRESPECT, it is essential to reflect on yourself and ask yourself questions like, "Is there any truth in what the person said or did? Did I do or say anything that provoked this situation? How can I respond in a way that is consistent with my values and virtues?" By reflecting on yourself and the situation objectively, you can gain a better understanding of the event and your own role in it. Self-reflection is a STOIC way of ensuring that your responses are based on rational judgment rather than impulsive reactions. It helps you learn from your situation and promotes personal growth and wisdom.

Learn to pause. Seneca once said, "Whenever you are angry, be assured that it is not only a present evil, but that you have increased a habit." STOICS believe in the importance of self-control and rationality. They argue that impulsive reactions driven by intense emotions like anger or frustration often lead to poor decisions and unnecessary suffering. When faced with DISRESPECT, the STOIC approach encourages you to avoid reacting impulsively. Instead, take a moment to pause and collect your thoughts. This pause allows you to regain control over your emotions and gives you the opportunity to respond in a more measured and thoughtful manner. By resisting the impulse to react immediately, you can better align your response with STOIC PRINCIPLES of wisdom and self-control. This approach often leads to more constructive and less emotionally charged interactions. When faced with DISRESPECT, pausing is a key STOIC strategy to maintain composure and make rational decisions, ultimately leading to more positive outcomes and personal growth.

Have empathy. Epictetus and other influential STOIC philosophers said, "Seek not the good in external things, seek it in yourselves." STOICS believe that humanity is interconnected and that understanding the motivations and emotions of others can lead to better interactions and personal growth. When someone shows DISRESPECT, skepticism suggests practicing empathy. Try to put yourself in the other person's shoes and understand their perspective. Empathy can help you see the situation from a different angle and realize that the person's DISRESPECT may not be personal or intentional. It may be caused by their own insecurities, fears, or ignorance. Empathy can also help you feel compassion for the person and reduce your negative feelings towards them. By empathizing with the person who disrespected you, you can avoid taking their words or actions personally and respond with greater understanding.

More Articles

View All
Space Telescopes Maneuver like CATS - Smarter Every Day 59
[Music] Hey, it’s me D, and welcome back to Smarter Every Day! So you are probably well aware of the awesome science that comes out of space telescopes, but what you might not be aware of is the awesome science that goes into making these things work. Fo…
What Happened To My $100,000 Remodel
What’s up you guys, it’s Graham here. So I know a lot of you guys have been asking for an update on the status of my now over $100,000 renovation. I guess it’s about time I give everyone an update and discuss what’s going on because it’s been over a month…
Treating Animals With Acupuncture | National Geographic
Turned in there, yeah. People may not immediately put acupuncture with veterinary medicine. However, acupuncture from a veterinary standpoint has probably been almost practiced as long as that for humans. This forces came out of a field where it’s been ra…
1996 Berkshire Hathaway Annual Meeting (Full Version)
[Applause] Just a little early but I think, uh, everyone’s had a chance to take their seats. I must say this is the first time I’ve seen this program. They told me they’d surprise me and they certainly did. Mark Hamburg, our Chief Financial Officer, who i…
What are Continents?
How many continents are there? If you grew up in the English-speaking world, you might think that the answer is obvious: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7. But not everyone counts continents the same way. The usual definition, that they’re large land masses separated f…
Worked example: limit comparison test | Series | AP Calculus BC | Khan Academy
So we’re given a series here and they say what series should we use in the limit comparison test. Let me underline that: the limit comparison test in order to determine whether ( S ) converges. So let’s just remind ourselves about the limit comparison te…