yego.me
💡 Stop wasting time. Read Youtube instead of watch. Download Chrome Extension

Principles for Success: "The Call to Adventure" | Episode 1


3m read
·Nov 10, 2024

Principles for success: an ultra mini-series adventure in 30 minutes and in eight episodes.

Episode 1: The Call to Adventure

Before we begin, let me just establish the fact that I don't know much relative to what I need to know. Whatever success I've had in life has more to do with my knowing how to deal with my not knowing than anything I know.

I know that I should be telling other people what to do. Sounds kind of presumptuous to me, but I'm going to do it because I believe that the principles that have made me successful could help others achieve their own goals. I'm now at a stage in my own life in which it is much more important to me to pass along what I've learned about how to be successful than to seek more success for myself.

What you choose to do with these principles is up to you. You have to be an independent thinker because only you can develop your own principles based on your own values. This brings me to my first and most fundamental principle, which is that you need to think for yourself about what is true.

So let's get started. Early on, I discovered I needed principles. Principles are smart ways for handling things that happen over and over again in similar situations. There are principles for everything, from skiing to parenting to cooking and so on.

I'm going to share some of my most important overarching life principles that influence how we approach everything. I didn't start out with principles; I acquired them over a lifetime of experiences, mostly from making mistakes and reflecting on them.

My life principles are simple, but they're not complete. I still struggle to make the best decisions, and I still make mistakes and learn new principles all the time. This is the reality.

At the beginning, I needed to escape the conventions that surrounded me, which meant that I needed to think for myself. Unless you want to have a life that is directed by others, you need to decide for yourself what to do, and you need to have the courage to do it. But I didn't know that at first; I only learned that from going on my adventure.

Looking back on my own journey, I now see that time is like a river that carries us forward into encounters with reality that require us to make decisions. We can't stop our movement down this river, and we can't avoid the encounters; we can only approach them in the best possible way.

In your lifetime, you will face millions of decisions. The quality of your decisions will determine the quality of your life. Over the course of my lifetime, the most valuable things I've learned were the results of mistakes I reflected on to help form principles so I wouldn't make the same mistakes again.

These principles took me from being a very ordinary middle-class kid from Long Island to becoming very successful, as judged by conventional measures. They also gave me the meaningful work and meaningful relationships that I value even more than these conventional successes.

People often ask me how I did it. I can assure you it wasn't because of my uniqueness as a person; it was the result of a unique approach to life. I believe almost anybody can adopt it. It starts with embracing reality and dealing with it.

In Episode two, I'll explain what that means.

More Articles

View All
Why Do We Clap?
Hey, Vsauce. Michael here. The loudest clap ever recorded clocked in at 113 decibels. And the world record for fastest clapping was recently set at 802 claps per minute. Clapping is the most common human body noise others are meant to hear that doesn’t in…
Homeroom with Sal & Jacquelline Fuller - Thursday, July 16
Hi everyone! Welcome to our homeroom livestream. South Khan here from Khan Academy. For those of you who are wondering what this is, this is just something we started up several months ago, especially when we all have to become socially distant, as a way …
Counting faces and edges of 3D shapes
How many faces does the following shape have? Pause this video and see if you can figure that out. All right, I’m assuming you paused it, and I’ll see if we can work through it together. I’m going to actually try to color the faces. So, we have this face…
"The Biggest Mistake I've Ever Made" | Shark Tank's Kevin O'Leary & "The Mooch" Anthony Scaramucci
What do you tell them about building their own net worth and how to go forward and not trip up in that aspect? So many kids come out of college $80,000 in debt and they go straight downward from there. What advice do you give young kids in terms of start…
The 7 BEST Purchases to make in your 20s
Hey guys, welcome back to the channel! In this video, we’re going to be talking about seven smart purchases that I think you should make when you’re still in your 20s. So I went down a bit of a YouTube rabbit hole and I saw a lot of people making differen…
Student tips for completing assignments on Khan Academy
Hi, I’m Shannon from Khan Academy, and I want to show you how to make the most of your learning time. First, make sure you’re logged into your Khan Academy account by checking for your name in the upper right-hand corner. If you are not logged in, you won…