Can you solve this riddle? How to overcome your mind’s rigid thinking | Leonard Mlodinow | Big Think

[Music] Sometimes the solution to a challenge in life isn't to cover or think; it's to step back and look at the problem, not the solution. Then you'll realize that you had some hidden assumption or some assumption that you could relax, that you didn't realize, and that will change everything.

For example, here's a riddle: Marjorie and Margie were born of the same mother and father on the same day of the same month at the same hour, and yet they are not twins. How is that possible? So these two girls were born at the same time to the same parents, but they're not twins. Well, the answer is they're triplets.

Now, you could start reasoning, but you're not going to get there because you have an implicit assumption that you're making, a picture in your mind. That's why the riddle is tough. I say Marge, Marjorie, and Margie, and you're picturing two girls or two women. Once you have that picture in your mind, you're excluding the answer, which is triplets or quadruplets or something else like that.

And that happens in life, too. Sometimes the answer is easy once you question your assumptions, and that's a key to elastic thinking. The human brain is an idea machine. On the unconscious level, at a level that you're not even aware of, your brain is constantly making associations and coming up with ideas.

Now, if all these ideas just popped into your consciousness, you'd be overwhelmed. You would drown in them; you wouldn't be able to function, as some people with certain mental disorders experience. For example, if you're schizophrenic, you might be swamped with so many sensations and ideas that you can't even connect with reality.

Most of us do better than that because we have these things called cognitive filters in our brain that kill the ideas that are less conventional or less likely to be true, less connected to reality. They allow the more ordinary ideas to come through on the theory in your brain that those are the ones most likely to work, and in most circumstances, they are the ones that work.

But sometimes, they're not, and you need a different idea. When you're looking to think differently, you have to learn how to relax those cognitive filters. When you relax, mine is only when you relax your mind and open yourself that a new idea can pop into your mind: "Hey, maybe I'd never thought of this. I didn't question that."

Because of that, when you're exercising elastic thinking, when you're trying to get a new idea or to question an assumption, overcome a mental barrier to adapt to change, rather than applying the same old same old, it's important to keep all distractions away from you. Keep anything that would focus your mind away, for instance, your cell phone.

Even if you're not checking your cell phone, if you know it's on, you might feel it vibrate or you might just think, "I wonder what's there." That's bad. Changing your task, multitasking is bad; you're not going to get these really brilliant ideas if every ten minutes you're going to another focus. These things take time.

Another point is you have to give yourself that time. For me, it's unlimited time. If I'm doing physics or if I'm writing a book and I start at 10 in the morning, if I have something to do at 1 in the afternoon, that kills the whole morning. I can't do it. I won't even start; I'll just say, "I can't work today because I have something to do at 1."

Now, that seems a little bit extreme, but there's a reason for that. I'm not as imaginative; I'm not as exploratory with my ideas if I know I have a deadline. Because I have the pressure that I have to solve this physics problem or write this chapter or these pages and be done by one, I know that at 1 o'clock I have to leave. I'm going to not like it if I didn't get anywhere.

But what I need to be imaginative is to not worry about not getting anywhere. I need to get rid of that and relax my mind. And they'll go, "This idea might be really stupid; this approach might not work, but I'm gonna try it anyway." If it doesn't work, guess what? I'm gonna just keep going with another one. I can't do that if I have to quit at one, and I can't do that if I'm multitasking.

So that's really important in approaching things from a new point of view—to have this relaxed approach. Another important factor in encouraging elastic thinking is to get rid of that damn fear of failure. Most people don't like to be wrong. You probably tend to forget the times you were wrong or not even admit it.

You don't like to fail, and you certainly don't want to have someone who's your boss or your partner look at you and criticize you or think badly of you for failing. Well, let me tell you: the first thing a theoretical physicist does is get used to failing—get used to being wrong. When you're having a discussion with someone about some deep problem, you can't inhibit yourself by worrying if your idea that you spread out is good or bad or stupid.

You just say it. Or if you have a question, you have to ask it, whether it's a stupid question or not. And you soon realize that these things don't make you look stupid; they make you look smart, self-assured, confident. Because only a confident person can be wrong and not care about it, right?

But what they do even better than that is they allow new ideas to come to you. Because the more you focus on not wanting to fail, the more the filters in your head that are keeping the good ideas from coming out will focus and beat down those bad, those unusual ideas. The unusual ideas are often bad ideas, often wrong ideas, but if you beat them all down, you're not gonna get the minority of them that are great ideas that no one else would have thought of.

Because all those other people are conventional thinkers and they're afraid of failing. Scientists have found through experiments with people solving problems that people in a very enclosed space that's brightly lit tend to have more focus and, on the flip side, stronger cognitive filters. So they don't have these more unusual ideas, but they focus much more on their logical thinking.

If you're in a less well-lit room, a quiet room without external noises, a room with high ceilings, your mind can be more unfocused and allow a broader range of thinking to come into play.

Another way, which I'm not saying I recommend, is through drugs and alcohol, which artists and musicians and people of various creative pursuits have talked about from all the way back at least to the Greeks. Alcohol inhibits your cognitive filters and also inhibits your executive function.

So your brain also has a control function, which controls logical, rational thought but also guides your elastic thinking in a way that's useful. If you relax that too much, you're going to have these ideas, but you're not going to be able to focus them into something coherent.

So alcohol can have that issue. Marijuana also relaxes your cognitive filters; it has other effects just like alcohol does. For instance, it impedes your working memory, so you might be getting all these ideas but forgetting what you're trying to do, or they might be fleeting memories.

Ayahuasca is a hallucinogen that some people have used, which has a multitude of effects and can be very, actually, very nasty and a bad experience; but it also acts on the cognitive filter. So drugs of many types can be used to loosen or relax your cognitive filters, but you have to be careful because they each have a multitude of other effects.

If you want to get new ideas and you want to overcome your mental blocks, you have to free yourself from those distractions and from other focuses and relax your mental filters—that will let the ideas through. [Music]