15 Things You Envy In Other People

Nothing says I have no confidence in myself more than envying other people and being obvious about it. They seem to have it all while you're here, stuck yet again. Well, today we're talking about 15 things you envy in other people, so you can start doing something about it. Welcome to LAX.

First stop, wealth and financial freedom. Because let's face it, you're envious of wealth and it's understandable. Wealth means living without constantly saying no to yourself. It's about grabbing life's opportunities without a second thought. Enjoying luxuries and not just daydreaming about them. It's the difference between watching life from the sidelines and playing in the big leagues.

But here's a dose of tough love: starting with envy at someone else's wealth isn't going to fatten up your wallet while you're busy envying. They're making moves, taking risks, and reaping the rewards of their courage. So what about you? Are you going to stay in the shadows of envy, or are you ready to step out into the light and chase after your own fortune?

Then there's successful careers. You see them, don't you? People climbing the corporate ladder like it's a leisurely escalator ride while you feel stuck. Counting those steps on the stairwell. It's that envy gnawing at you every time you hear about someone's promotion, their game-changing project, or that startup that just hit it big. It's natural to feel a twinge of jealousy. Success in the fast lane is alluring.

The hard truth is, though, careers are built, not handed out. Those people you envy, they grab the steering wheel of their career with both hands. And it's time that you do the same.

Physical appearance. Instagram made you think that everyone is a supermodel. Maybe it's their effortless fitness or the way they seem to defy aging. But while you're busy envying, they're probably maintaining disciplined diets, hitting the gym, or nailing their skincare routine. It's about commitment, not just genetics or luck. The mirror isn't going to change until you do so. It's time to shift from envy to action.

Relationships. Here's a hard pill to swallow. You felt that pang of envy seeing couples wrapped up in their perfect little world. Whether it's those picture-perfect moments on social media or friends gushing about their significant other, it can make your own love life seem, well, a bit lackluster in comparison. You think to yourself, "Man, they're so lucky." But we know what that really means. They're out there making the relationship work, putting in the effort, the communication, and the compromise that love demands. And you're out there scrolling through photos from four years ago, being careful not to hit like by accident.

Constant progress. It's impossible to ignore the feeling of envy when you see someone making constant progress in their life. They're always evolving, always moving forward and reaching new heights while you're stuck watching them. They're out there growing, learning, and pushing their boundaries. But let's be honest, your envy is not going to propel you forward. Those people you envy, they're committed to personal growth and self-improvement. They're not waiting for change. They're actively seeking it, creating it every single day.

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Talent and creativity. You ever find yourself staring in awe, maybe a little bit green-eyed at someone else's natural talent or creative genius, be it the colleague who delivers stunning presentations, the friend whose art just flows effortlessly, or someone turning their passion into a thriving business? Their innate ability can seem like some kind of magical gift that you were denied. But what you're forgetting is that talent gets beaten by hard work, and creativity runs in circles. If there's nowhere to apply it, confidence and charisma.

Watching someone command a room with their sheer confidence and charisma can sometimes make you feel like you're blending into the wallpaper, or you see them effortlessly charming, brimming with self-assurance, and you wonder, "Why can't that be me?" Well, here's the reality. The most charismatic people often aren't born that way. They grow into it. You have the same potential. It's just about how you nurture it. Stop envying and start building your confidence. It's there, a loser within you just waiting to be unleashed.

Luxurious lifestyles. You've seen it, right? The lavish lifestyles of the rich. Those Instagram feeds filled with exotic destinations, high-end fashion, and gourmet dining. It's easy to look at the world of luxury and feel a twinge of envy, wondering why your life can't be a sequence of such opulent moments. You think that if only you too would have a Bugatti, things would be different. So you resort to pretending to be rich. You tell people you have things going on. You make it look like you've got places to be and important people to talk to. But, you know, the real truth is far away from that.

Intelligence and wisdom. There's something about people who exude intelligence and wisdom that can spark a bit of envy in you. You know them, the ones who always seem to have insightful things to say, who approach problems with a level of understanding that seems leagues ahead. They make you feel kind of irritated, don't they? You think they're making fun of you, and you just are not getting it when in reality they're not even aware of your presence. Your brain is a muscle that needs exercise. So put down that envy and pick up a book, a new hobby, or a challenge. Expand your horizons and watch your own intelligence and wisdom grow.

A social circle. They're always at the best events, rubbing shoulders with the who's who. Making you feel like your own social life just is a bit of a dull blip in comparison. They have real squad goals while you and your pals plan your next hang. They support each other while your friends race to see who can make a trashier joke. You're just having a different experience, and if you want more, that's a real shame.

Travel and experiences. It's the exotic destinations, the mind-blowing views, and the sunsets on the beach. They all look almost fake. And you tell yourself that, surely that's Photoshopped. But in reality, you crave to see what the world has to offer. You just have no courage. It's not about money or location. We live in a world of possibilities where if you really want to see Japan, you can go to Japan. It's not that far out of reach. And you don't need to own five businesses to afford it. But you'd rather stay at home where it's nice and cozy and nothing unexpected can happen. You just got to be honest with yourself sometimes.

Fashion sense and style. Some people just look good, right? They put in the effort to look themselves, and they're recognizable. You can tell what they are—style. Everything fits. Everything matches and coordinates. Well, you look like your wardrobe tipped over on top of you, and you got out with whatever clothes stuck to your body. You argue that fashion is for posers and people chasing trends are just idiots. Look, okay, we get not being big on fashion or avoiding the rotating door of trends, but no style at all? Not even a little bit? There's no wonder that nothing looks good on you if you put absolutely no effort into it. You see, the reality is people do judge a book by its cover, and your cover says children's coloring book.

Freedom and independence. You can't help but envy those who live with a sense of freedom and independence that seems unattainable. They make their own rules, follow their passions, and don't seem tied down by the constraints of a conventional life. This kind of liberty, where one calls their own shots, is undeniably attractive. And you think you're kind of the same way because, hey, nobody can tell you anything if you don't care about anything. You mistake independence for arrogance when in fact, it means discipline and being in control of your environment. Only those truly disciplined get to experience true freedom, inner peace, and contentment.

There's something deeply enviable about people who exude a sense of inner peace and contentment amidst the chaos of daily life. They seem unflappable, maintaining a serene composure that makes your own inner turmoil all the more apparent. But let's face it, envy won't calm your storms. The tranquil demeanor of those individuals often comes from years of cultivating mindfulness, self-awareness, and perhaps overcoming significant challenges. They've learned to find happiness within rather than relying on external validation or material success. While you search for peace outside, they find it inside.

Health and vitality. This is something you start to envy in others once you're past 30, and you notice that not taking care of yourself is really starting to show. You're slow, weak, and tired. Running up a flight of stairs takes your breath away. Tying up your shoes makes you groan. Standing up makes you dizzy. You know what we're talking about. There's always a great time to get healthy until it's suddenly too late. Don't make the mistake of waiting too long to tackle this.

And of course, for sticking with us this far, we've got a bonus for you: legacy and impact. Watching someone leave a mark on the world, building a legacy that extends beyond their lifetime can stir up a deep sense of envy in you. It's not just about their current success, but about the lasting impact they're set to leave behind; something that will be remembered, revered, and respected. But you see these people you look up to. They're not just dreaming about legacy. They're out there creating it with their actions, decisions, and the causes they champion. They're driven by a purpose larger than themselves.

So what about you? Are you going to be content with simply admiring their legacy, or are you going to start building your own? You see, everyone leaves a legacy in one way or another. It's about the choices you make, the lives you touch, and the difference you create in your corner of the world. Your legacy is in your hands.

It's time to move beyond envy and start shaping the impact you want to leave behind. Start living your life in a way that leaves a trail of inspiration for others to follow.