Sexual Satisfaction in the 21st Century | Original Sin: Sex

Looks okay. Everybody knows that I am speaking explicitly, and I don't mince words.

What has changed to the advantage is that people are more sexually networked— not enough yet, but more. Sexually different women have heard the message that a woman is to take the responsibility for her sexual satisfaction. The same applies to men, who have to be willing to say what they need in order to be sexually satisfied and to have a wonderful relationship.

The sexual desire, the libido, has been there from the start of time, so that's nothing new. What is new is that we have to teach that the libido is a very strong component of our lives and has to be taken with respect. At the same time, it is important to take into account all of the backgrounds of people; their religious beliefs and values have to be respected.

What I hope that people will take away from anything that I am teaching and talking about is that it's not just the mechanics of sex. It's not just the ability to have an orgasm or the ability to drive an erection. It's the relationship between people.

So, I really want people to have a relationship. I want people to be in a relationship. I’m all for matchmaking because I do see so many people who are lonely. Therefore, online dating is perfectly all right with me, as long as they use their brains. To know does not just mean to have sex; to know means maybe to have a relationship.